josh tells me that Top Ten XYZ articles attract viewers.  i agree. whenever i see “Top Ten something-something” on that stupid MSN homepage that loads because the school computer is running internet explorer, i can’t help but click on it, even if it’s “Top Ten Mistakes when Cleaning One’s Vagina”.  in terms of neurolinguistic programming, [...]

hi incoming gay freshmen!
i don’t know how you found this blog.  probably from incessant googling to find out what the hell’s queer in Athens, because you’re out of high school, and now that you’re going to college, you can finally find love!  or sex!  depending!  probably love!  how do you do that?  how do you [...]

GayInAthens.com contributing blogger Hayden Darkwith discusses the closing of Athens’ gay bar, Blur, and lays down the line on the differences between volunteerism and capitalism. This editorial is a response to the comments made on a previous article about the bar’s closing. Please note that strong language is used. The opinions expressed in this article [...]

ok, so you’re tired of the internet and manhunt and craigslist.
you’re fed up with weirdos asking to pay you for sex. or getting rejected by guys who clearly aren’t as hot as you are. or scheduling a sex date with what turns out to be the guy across the hall in Creswell who you [...]

While OUT Magazine, a popular magazine for gay men, provides a monthly dose of eye candy, GayInAthens.com contributing writer Hayden Darkwith lets us know what he really thinks about the 'zine.

i have decided that there is a magazine i hate more than The New Yorker: OUT magazine. OUT magazine impersonates gay culture like drag queens [...]

Demystifying the coded language of online dating.
yesterday, i gave you the first half of my definitive, and by definitive i mean not, but that word “definitive” makes you more likely to click on this post, guide to gay internet dating profiles. i take you to the meaning behind the surface text.

here’s a few lines that [...]

Internet dating is filled with confusing jargon. Hayden Darkwith decodes.
i’ve gotten on a tangent here about internet dating.

not long ago, i discussed the tres sketch craigslist, which is so sketch, even i don’t use it—and i have a paid subscription to manhunt. (i’m letting the manhunt subscription expire at the end of the month though, [...]

A slice of beefcake … just because! Read on for Hayden Darkwith's three dangers of Craigslist and Manhunt.
lately i’ve been hearing that athens’ homosexuals have been using craigslist to find sex, which i find both shocking and exciting. shocking because i thought craigslist was just for hopeless attempts to give away kittens. exciting [...]

they are out there
In case you missed part 1, here it is.
hello mo’s,
yesterday, i set out to answer, and probably failed, the common query for the young gay homosexual man who wants to meet other hot young gay homosexual men because he, quote, does not do the bar scene.
of course you do the bar scene. [...]

Finding a hottie in Athens may be easier than you thought.
alright mo’s,
so you want to know where to meet hot guys in athens, and you don’t want to go to the local gay bar.
first off, you’re right. the gay bar sucks for meeting people. at least people for sex, or relationships, or relationships that might [...]